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Disaster
Relief Notice issued on Mongolia
Governor's Monthly Letter - By DG John
Wan
February Governor's Monthly Letter in Chinese
Disasters in Mongolia and Inner Mongolia
- By DDIC Herbert Lau
Continuity Column - By DGE Johnson Chu
2001 District Conference
Internet Humour
Reason, Season or A Lifetime
Attendance Report - December 2000
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Disaster
Relief Notice issued on Mongolia
District
3450 has established a bank account with CITIC Ka Wah
Bank Limited to accept contributions towards Mongolia.
Make cheques payable to "Rotary International District
3450-Disaster Relief" Account No. 018-699-1-18208-7-00
At the request
of Governor John Wan, RI has issued a Disaster Relief
Notice calling for contributions from Rotarians worldwide
towards relief efforts for victims of the severe snow
storm in Mongolia.
Severe winter
weather following a terrible summer drought has caused
extensive damage throughout Mongolia. More than 600,000
animals have died, which in turn has caused tremendous
hardship to the people in Mongolia most of whom rely
on their livestock for income and nourishment.
The Rotary
Club of Ulaanbaatar has appealed to the District and
clubs in Hong Kong and Macau are collecting donations
during regular meetings and social functions. All contributions
in cash can be paid into the bank account established
for disaster relief. The account is with the Queen's
Road Central Branch of CITIC Ka Wah Bank Limited, and
the account number is -
018-699-1-18208-7-00
Past Governor
Anthony Hung who is the District Convenor of the Rapid
Disaster Relief Task Force is in charge of the overall
operation. He is assisted in the operation by two Rotarians
from RC of Ulaanbaatar. PDG Anthony Hung is also taking
charge of relief efforts towards Inner Mongolia which
is in for a very severe winter and is expected to be
hit even harder. Billed as the worst blizzard in decades,
the snow storm has claimed over 40 loves with more than
800 injured. See article on Page 4 for more details.
Although Inner Mongolia does not fall within Rotary
territory, Governor John Wan has agreed to appeal to
clubs in the District to raise funds to assist the people
in Inner Mongolia whom he described as his countrymen.
PDG Anthony Hung is assisted in the relief operation
for Inner Mongolia by CP Herbert Lau (Tolo Harbour)
who knows the area very well and has already arranged
a meeting between the DG, PDG Anthony and representatives
from the area. All donations can be sent to PDG Anthony
Hung or CP Herbert Lau.
Meanwhile,
RI has issued Disaster Relief Notices in respect of
the earthquakes in India and El Salvador.
IPDG Dipo
Sani has made a special appeal for contributions to
the disaster in western India. Rotarians in the neighbouring
districts, including 3050 and 3080 are doing their best
to provide immediate medical care, food, shelter and
clothing.
DG John Wan
has made a general appeal to all clubs and members to
contribute to whichever disaster they feel for strongest
or all of them. He and his district team stand ready
to provide any logistics support to channel the funds
collected or to offer information on the latest situation
in these disaster stricken areas. He has made a special
appeal for donations to Mongolia because it is part
of the District, and to Inner Mongolia because it is
part of China.
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Governor's
Monthly Letter - February 2001
Congratulations
AG Amy; Register for District Conference; Council on
Legislation; World Understanding Month and you
My Dear Action
Presidents, Club Secretaries and Rotary Leaders,
I would like
to begin by sharing with you the good news from Assistant
Governor Amy Ho. Amy announced that at 22:29 hours on
22 January 2001, her first baby, arrived, weighing in
at 6 pounds 6 ounces. Had the baby girl waited a day
and an hour and a half longer, she could have been the
first baby born in the Year of the Snake in Hong Kong.
Amy also reported that mother and daughter were both
doing well as she wished us a Happy New Year. Congratulations,
Amy and well done. Now, we all wait for the arrival
of Cinderella's baby expected to be in April. We have
already said that if the baby arrives on the 7th or
8th April through natural birth, mother and child will
attend district conferences of our District free in
future.
Yes, our
District Conference will be held on 7 - 8 April 2001
at the Hong Kong Convention and Exhibition Centre. RI
President Frank Devlyn has appointed RI Director-elect
Toshio Itabashi and his spouse, Ritsuko, to be his and
Gloria Rita's personal representatives to our District
Conference. Director-elect Toshio has been a member
of the Rotary Club of Ashikaga East, Japan since 1962.
He is President of a paint and chemical distributing
firm, Managing Director of the Japan Paint Commerce
Association, Chairman of the Ashikaga Chamber of Commerce
and Industries and Chairman of the Ashikaga International
Association. He is also editor of Rotary-No-Tomo, and
has served RI as district governor, International Assembly
discussion leader, committee member, and Foundation
regional coordinator. Director-elect Toshio is a Rotary
heavyweight and a keen Rotarian. I look forward to meeting
the couple and to sharing his Rotary wisdom.
My Action
Presidents, now is the time to urge your members to
register for the District Conference. I should stress
that a district conference is for all club members and
their spouses, not just for club officers and committee
members. The purpose of a district conference is to
showcase the achievements of clubs in the District and
to provide occasions for fun, fellowship, inspirational
speeches and discussion. The theme of the conference
is Back To The Future. It is a reminder for us to look
into the future - the future of Rotary, the future generations,
and what the future means to you. We would bring in
speakers outside Rotary and the District to provoke
new thinking. We would try to make this a conference
with a difference. Please urge your Rotaractor and Interactor
advisers to register for their Rotaractors and Interactors
and to encourage the youths to attend all the sessions,
not just the youth sessions. Indeed, all sessions would
be relevant to them, because we would be looking into
the future. Rotaractors and Interactors attend free
if they do not stay for the meals. This policy is in
line with our commitment to the new generations and
our resolve to live up to the challenge in the slogan,
"Every Rotarian an Example to Youth."
Also taking
place in April, but in Chicago, Illinois, USA will be
the Council on Legislation. The Council meets once every
three years and will next meet on 22 - 27 April 2001.
Past Governor Arthur Au will represent our District
to attend and I believe you have all received his letter
asking you for views on the proposed legislation to
be considered. I received in the post the booklet (Volume
I) with the complete text of the duly proposed legislation,
527 in number. It is 4-cm thick. There are two types
of legislation - enactments and resolutions. A proposed
enactment is intended to amend the constitutional documents
of RI, i.e., the RI constitution, the RI bylaws and
the Standard Rotary Club Constitution. A proposed resolution
is legislation that does not seek to amend the constitutional
documents. The documents are printed in English, and
in French, Japanese, Korean, Portuguese and Spanish.
The English version of the legislation is considered
the official document. The booklet is available in compact
disc format and on the Rotary World Wide Web site. We
have been advised that Volume II will soon be posted.
This is a second booklet with the complete text of the
duly proposed legislation that has been amended for
errors in Volume I.
Back to the
present, we are now in February, and February is Rotary's
World Understanding Month. On 23 February 1905, the
first meeting of Rotary was held and the day is now
designated World Understanding and Peace Day. DGN Gloria
Chan organized a joint meeting in the evening on Friday,
23 February 2001 at the Regal Hong Kong Hotel. I am
glad to see so many of you at the meeting.
World Understanding
month is a chance for every club to pause, plan and
promote the Fourth Avenue of Service - International
Service - and to pursue Rotary's continued quest for
goodwill, peace and understanding among the people of
the world. I discussed the international responsibilities
of a Rotarian in my last letter. I urge all of you to
take up the quest with due seriousness and to promote
and practice international understanding in spirit and
through action. As a start, consider our responsibilities
towards our brothers and sisters in disaster stricken
Mongolia, Inner Mongolia, India and El Salvador. Consider
our responsibilities towards the Rotary Foundation and
the wonderful programmes that can be carried out for
humanity with our continuing contributions. Consider
this an assignment and a duty to your fellowmen. This
may sound quixotic, but in the words of President Frank
Devlyn, let this be the year that people many years
from now will recall as the year in which the Action
Team of Presidents created awareness of the international
responsibilities of a Rotarian and led the members to
take action, by taking proactive steps in our disaster
relief efforts, in our contribution to the Rotary Foundation
and in our International Service programmes.
Talk to you
soon.
Your Governor
John Wan
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February
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Disasters
in Mongolia and Inner Mongolia
By Deputy District Information Coordinator Herbert
Lau
Since January this year, Mongolia and the Greater Mongolia
Region has been battered by snowstorms or Zud. Herdsmen
in the Greater Mongolian Region had a bleak Christmas
and New Year.
The
United Nations and the Government of Mongolia launched
an international appeal for assistance for herder families
stricken by a second consecutive winter disaster. As
many as six million heads of livestock, or about 20
percent of the national herd, could perish during the
next few months from the severe winter conditions coming
after a winter disaster during 1999-2000 followed by
a prolonged drought in the summer of 2000.
Referred
to as Zud in Mongolia, this unfolding winter disaster
is caused by heavy snowfall in some areas and icy conditions
in others. Snow from 10 to 50 cm in depth covered much
of the territory of Mongolia as of 10 January 2001,
with depths up to 80 cm in some places. These conditions
have prevented Mongolia's vast herds from grazing on
national vegetation during the winter. The situation
is expected to worsen with heavier than average snow
forecast for the coming months.
Prolonged
bad weather will result in the impoverishment of thousands
of herding families. The Zud of 1999-2000 has resulted
in the death of almost three million heads of livestock,
or ten percent of the national herd. Some 2,400 families
lost all their livestock in 1999-2000. The nationwide
losses were estimated to be US$ 84 million.
Losses
this year are expected to be more severe. Speaking at
the official launch of the appeal in Ulaanbaatar, the
Minister for Defense and Chairman of the State Emergency
Commission J. Gurragchaa said, "As of today, 100,000
herders with 20 million livestock from 192 counties
in 20 provinces are affected by the Zud. As of January
25, some 605,000 animals had already perished."
The
Government of Mongolia requested assistance from the
United Nations to deal with the disaster in December
2000. On January 9, 2001, the United Nations Office
for the Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs (OCHA)
dispatched a team of disaster specialists to Mongolia.
This United Nations Disaster Assessment and Coordination
(UNDAC) Team assisted the Government to assess the situation
and to prepare for an international appeal for assistance.
Based
on the findings of the UNDAC Team, the Government of
Mongolia and United Nations launched an appeal on January
30, 2001, requesting for US$11,778,857 in assistance
for Mongolians suffering from the Zud. Of this total,
US$7,096,609 was requested in cash, and US$4,682,248
was requested for donation in-kind.
The
funds would be channeled through the appropriate UN
agencies and distributed in consultation with the related
government ministries. These UN agencies include the
UNDP, FAO, WHO, UNICEF, UNFPA, and OCHA.
On
February 9, United States Ambassador to Mongolia, John
Dinger, presented US$25,000 for Zud disaster relief
on behalf of the United States Government. The money
would be used for purchasing and transporting 40 tons
of flour, 500 pairs of warm cotton pants and 500 pairs
of felt boots to 4,200 people in 800 households in eight
severely affected soums of Huvsgal, Govi-Altai, and
Bulgan amigs.
Herdsmen
in Inner Mongolia have also had a bleak Lunar New Year
and will go through a long severe winter ahead. The
official death toll from the worst blizzard in decades
has exceeded 40, with more than 800 injured and most
suffering from frostbite after the severe snowstorms
earlier in the year.
Relief
workers have said that many victims were badly hurt
and some needed urgent surgery. Many had to have their
limbs amputated. Food supplies have also been running
low. Official sources have put it that 363 million hectares
of grasslands in 31 banner/counties had been destroyed
and 220,500 animals dead, while 386,000 homes or 1.65
million people were affected. Mr. HAO Yidong, Vice Chairman
of Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region Government, warned
that the blizzard-hit regions, mainly in Xilin Gol League,
would take some months to recover. He said it would
take two more months before snow started melting. Many
herdsmen would have to live on outside relief for at
least four months. He said that "extreme difficulties
lay ahead" as the winter had not ended and more bad
weather was a possibility.
The
Inner Mongolia Government had started to dispatch relief
materials and allocated 58 million Yuan (HK$54 million)
in relief funds to the victims. According to Xinhua
News Agency, 30,000 homes in the Xilin Gol grasslands
were still unreachable and up to three million livestock
were starving.
While
the local government had promised resolute measures
to ensure that the herdsmen would not starve, many families
were running out of food and fuel. To highlight Central
Government's concern, Vice Premier Wen Jiabao was sent
to inspect the disaster-struck area and to supervise
the relief work. An Inner Mongolian official said that
the situation could remain dire, even when spring came,
since most grassland had already been destroyed by a
bad drought last year. During the blizzard, deep snow
blanketed the remaining pastures on which the herdsmen
feed their livestock and temperatures fell as low as
minus 50 degrees Celsius.
The
disaster areas fell on the majority part of the northeastern
Inner Mongolia, including Xilin Gol League, Hing An
League, Hulunbair League, Chit Feng, Tung Liao, totally
26 Banners/Counties.
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Continuity
Column
By DGE Johnson Chu
This is
DGE Johnson Chu's eighth article in the series. Johnson
wrote this article before he went for his training in
Anaheim. In this article, he gave an account of the
District Mahjong Tournament, his attendance at the Inauguration
Ceremony of the HK Junior Chamber National President,
his experience in accompanying DG John in his club visits,
and his visit to the sister club in Osaka of 20 years.
He ended with an appeal to members to attend the special
joint meeting to be held on 23 February to mark the
96th Anniversary of Rotary - Ed.
Dear fellow
Rotarians,
KUNG HEI
FAT CHOY! The district Mahjong competition was held
on Saturday, 6 January 2001 at the World Trade Centre
Club. It was well participated. Mahjong is a Chinese
game, supposed to be played and enjoyed by Chinese Only.
Unexpectedly, there were two non-Chinese participants.
I was greatly surprised that both of them were among
the final 16 contestants. I had a chance to watch them
play. Their technique was really superb. They spoke
fluent Chinese throughout the competition. One of them
is Rotarian Franco Calabrese from the Rotary Club of
Peninsula, which fielded two participants, both of them
advancing to the final. The game was exciting and tight.
The winner was Rotarian Fredrick Ng of the Rotary Club
of New Territories. He beat the first runner-up by two
chits only. Congratulations to Fred.
As Governor
John was engaged in another activity, I was asked to
present the prizes to the winners on his behalf. The
competition was extremely well organised. A vote of
thanks should go to President-elect Lawrence Lok of
the Rotary Club of Hong Kong Bayview.
The Inauguration
Ceremony of the Hong Kong Junior Chamber was held on
Sunday, 14 January 2001. I was honoured to be invited
by the incoming National President Michelle Tang together
with Governor John as representatives of Rotary International
District 3450. The World President of Junior Chamber
International was also present.
The ceremony
included the inauguration of the incoming National President
Michelle Tang by the outgoing National President Spencer,
followed by the inauguration of the District Officers
by Michelle, who then inaugurated the 18 chapter presidents
and their officers. The ceremony was quite long, taking
around one hour.
The Junior
Chambers are dedicated and enthusiastic. They love to
make new acquaintances. When I was introduced during
dinner to the president of a chapter, other chapter
officers came to exchange name cards with me. Chapter
officers and members in the adjacent tables also came
to exchange name cards. I had brought with me extra
name cards, but I still ran out of cards.
There were
a number of Rotarians present, including past presidents
and presidents-elect. They have an age limit of 40 for
membership. To maintain membership, the association
has created a category called Senior Member, who are
not required to do what other members aged under 40
do. The evening ended with entertainment and raffle
draw.
I have personally
set a target to attend all district committee meetings,
particularly those in which I attend ex-officio. My
target is unsuccessful because some meetings were held
simultaneously. For instance, the Joint Presidents'
Meeting and the Joint Secretaries' Meeting were held
at the same time on Friday, 22 September 2000. I should
attend five Rotary meetings on Tuesday, 17 January 2001.
However, I could only attend four because the last two
were held simultaneously.
I have joined
District Governor John in his official visits to clubs
from July 2000 to February 2001. Although I was unable
to visit every club, I did visit close to 90% of all
the clubs. This has given me a chance to know the clubs
better. In addition to meeting presidents serving in
my year of Governorship, I have learned a lot from Governor
John. I am particularly impressed by his organizing
ability, his technique in delivering speeches, his talent
in writing letters, his knowledge in Rotary and his
efficiency at work. He seldom reads from a prepared
speech. I am lucky in having such a great predecessor.
My family
members and I were among the delegation to visit our
sister club, the Rotary Club of Shirokita, in Osaka,
Japan. We have sister relation for 20 years and are
closely related to each other. We visit each other every
year. With no exception, we were again warmly received.
The club president and other members greeted us at the
airport. A formal reception dinner was arranged with
about 70 participants. President Tanaka brought us to
one of his restaurants for dessert after dinner. We
were invited to a Hot Spring resort in the north the
next day. Bento lunch, tea, beer and soft drinks were
served on the coach. A delicious crabmeat dinner was
arranged in the evening followed by karaoke entertainment.
The trip lasted only three days, but all 17 of us appreciated
deeply everything that our sister club had arranged.
Rotary was
born on 23 February 1905. The day has been designated
WORLD UNDERSTANDING AND PEACE DAY. This year, our district
will observe this important day by organizing a joint
evening meeting hosted by a number of clubs, mainly
those meeting on Fridays. Unfortunately, I will not
be able to attend this meaningful function because I
will be attending the International Assembly in Anaheim,
U.S.A. I sincerely wish every success for that event.
Thank you
DGE Johnson
Chu
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2001
District Conference
By DG John Wan
A District
Conference is a meeting held annually in each district
to further the programme of Rotary through fellowship,
inspirational addresses, and the discussion of matters
relating to club and district affairs. It is open to
all Rotarians in the district and their families. This
is the definition taken from the 1998 Manual of Procedure.
Cliff L Dochterman,
President of Rotary International in 1992-93 observes
that most Rotarians have never attended a Rotary district
conference (and hence) have not experienced one of the
most enjoyable and rewarding privileges of Rotary membership.
Past President Cliff has further said, "Every person
who attends a district conference finds that being a
Rotarian becomes even more rewarding because of the
new experiences, insights and acquaintances developed
at the conference. Those who attend a conference enjoy
going back, year after year."
A district
conference is meant to showcase the programmes of Rotary
and successful district and club activities. It is an
opportunity to sustain and grow the membership base
within the district. It is probably the single most
significant event on the calendar of every district
and district governor. I bet every past governor can
tell you what happened during the district conference
held in the year he was governor.
In order
to maintain consistency and ensure quality, the RI Board
has laid down certain requirements. Among others, a
district conference must be not less than two entire
days and no more than three days in duration. It must
provide a minimum of nine hours of plenary sessions
and discussion groups of Rotary content. It must provide
the personal representative of the RI President with
the opportunity to address the conference a minimum
of two times, and with sufficient time for one of the
two times to deliver a major address of 20-25 minutes
at the conference session wit the maximum attendance,
including spouses. Earlier, there was a suggestion that-because
Hong Kong people run busy schedules-our district conference
should be reduced to a one-day event. Clearly, the suggestion
is not be in keeping with the policy. But even if it
were, it would not be wise to schedule nine hours of
Rotary content in one day.
I have mentioned
in my letter on Page 2 that President Frank Devlyn has
appointed Director-elect Toshio Itabashi and his spouse
Ritsuko to be his and Gloria Rita's personal representatives
at our District Conference. PDG Raymond Wong has talked
to Director-elect Toshio in Anaheim recently and confirmed
that we can expect a Rotary heavyweight.
We are having
our District Conference on 7 and 8 April, and we have
actually announced the dates nearly a year ago, during
the last District Assembly, held on 6 May 2000. We are
holding it at the Hong Kong Convention and Exhibition
Centre.
I would like
all Action Presidents to make a special effort to attend
and to persuade as many of your members as possible
to attend, not forgetting the spouses and families,
the Rotaractors and Interactors.
The theme
of the Conference is about the future, and we are putting
together a programme that centres on the future.
The 2001
District Conference will be different in a number of
ways. First, we are having a video conference with President
Frank Devlyn. The President will be conducting his Presidential
Conference in Manila and will address us in a plenary
session. Secondly, we are inviting interesting speakers
to speak on interesting issues, employing innovative
formats wherever possible. Thirdly, for the first time,
we have a clear policy of not charging the New Generations.
This means that all Rotaractors and Interactors will
attend free if they do not have meals, as will the Rotary
Alumni who are not Rotarians. Fourthly, for the first
time, we will present the Budget for 2001-2002, so that
all members of the District will have more than one
month to study the Budget before the presidents-elect
vote on it at the next District Assembly. Lastly, the
Governor's Banquet will be different. It will feature
an Oscar-style evening and Banquet Chairman PP Haywood
has pledged that he would pull all stops to make the
evening a huge success. All he needs is your presence.
In a matter
of days, we would firm up the conference programme after
we have firmed up the speakers. We would then announce
the details as soon as possible, but I can assure you
that Conference Chairman PP Kay Lau and his team will
spare no efforts to make this conference an event that
you will remember for a long time.
My Action
Presidents, I am aware that there will be people who
would say that it is expensive, that they have been
to one before, that they are not sure it would be worth
their time and effort to turn up, and so on. Please
do not lose heart when you hear this. Rotary is not
for the ordinary. Rotary is for leaders who want to
serve and those who are prepared to follow the Rotary's
service ideals. Do what you can to encourage and motivate
your members to attend. In the years to come, you will
recall fondly the achievement of your club in the year
you were President, when you created awareness in your
club and took action to take your members to the first
district conference of a new millennium-something that
you would always want to remember.
An important
feature of a district conference is a "House of Friendship"
which will showcase club and district projects. Please
spend time with your membership to work on a display
of your club's projects. We are thinking of taking some
of these displays to the Rotary Convention to be held
in San Antonio, Texas in June.
Action Presidents,
register for the District Conference now, please.
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Internet
Humour
By D W W Kwok
(At
least three friends, all men, have sent me a list of
14 cases about marriages. I added one. Some lines are
familiar and would likely evoke a feeling of déjà vu.
They do not and need not necessarily reflect views of
the editors or Rotarians-Ed.)
CASE
1: Getting married is like going to a restaurant with
friends. You order what you want, then when you see
what the other fellow has, you wish you had ordered
that.
CASE
2: At the cocktail party, one woman said to another,
"Aren't you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong finger?"
The other replied, "Yes, I am. I married the wrong man."
CASE
3: Before a man is married, he is incomplete. Then when
he is married, he is finished.
CASE
4: Marriage is an institution in which a man losses
his bachelor's degree and the woman gets her master's
status.
CASE
5: A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does
it cost to get married?" And the father replied, "I
don't know son, I'm still paying for it."
CASE
6: Young son: "Is it true, Dad, I heard that in some
parts of Africa, a man doesn't know his wife until he
marries her?" Dad: "That happens in most countries son."
CASE
7: Then there was a man who said, "I never knew what
real happiness was until I got married, and then it
was too late."
CASE
8: A happy marriage is a matter of give and take; the
husband gives and the wife takes.
CASE
9: When a newly married man looks happy, we know why.
But when a ten-year married man looks happy, we wonder
why. Affair?
CASE
10: Married life is very frustrating. In the first year
of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In
the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.
In the third year, they both speak and the neighbours
listen.
CASE
11: After a quarrel, a wife said to her husband, "You
know, I was a fool when I married you." And the husband
replied, "Yes, dear, but I was in love and didn't notice
it."
CASE
12: A man inserted an ad in the classified: "Wife wanted".
The next day, he received hundreds letters. They all
said the same thing "You can have mine."
CASE
13: When a man opens the door of his car for his wife,
you can be sure of one thing: either the car is new
or his wife is new.
CASE
14: A woman was telling her friend: "It is I who made
my husband a millionaire." "And what was he before you
married him?" the friend asked. The woman replied, "A
multimillionaire."
CASE
15: There was this man who muttered a few words in the
church and found himself married. A year later, he muttered
a few words in his sleep and found himself divorced.
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Reason,
Season or A Lifetime
People come
into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what
to do.
When someone
is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet
a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They
have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide
you with guidance and support, to aid you physically,
emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend,
and they are. They are there for the reason you need
them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part
or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or
do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes
they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act
up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must
realize is that our need has been met, your desire fulfilled;
their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been
answered and it is now time to move on.
When people
come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your
turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring
you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may
teach you some-thing you have never done. They usually
give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it!
It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME
relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the
person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned
to use in all other relationships and areas of your
life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is
clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life...…
(Forwarded
to me by a friend - Ed.)
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Attendance
Report - December 2000
Go
to District Web site for the December Attendance Report
You
can visit the attendance
section of this web-site for the current and previous
attendance reports.
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