Kingspark News

Rotary Club of Kingspark Hong Kong
Club No. 30119. GPO Box 248 Hong Kong
Volume 10 Issue 11 - 14 November 2001

This is the weekly bulletin of the Rotary Club of Kingspark Hong Kong, District 3450
Club Website: http://www.rotary3450.org/kingspark-hongkong

Contents

President's Message - By Raymond Sin
News Flash

My young friend Harry- By John Wan

"If someone holds up a cigarette where it's not allowed, I'll do something" - By Francis Wann
Volunteers Distributing Condoms to Prostitutes - From IYV2001 Website
Upcoming Events
The Board

Bulletin Editor : Alexander Mak

President's Message


By President Raymond Sin (2001-2002)

I was so busy last week that I forgot to write this column in the last issue. I would like to apologize to you and, particularly to PP Alex Mak.

What had I done in relation to Kingspark or Rotary during last week? I played bowling twice on two consecutive Sundays. On 28th October, Kingspark sent 3 teams to the District Bowling Tournament. We had great fun. It was an enjoyable morning except for VP Peter. Peter had played so hard that he got himself injured and gave up the game in the middle of it. We all felt sorry for him and also for the result of the game. So we did not get any prize this year as Peter was one of our key players. Lucky enough, I won myself a 5th place on the list of individuals with highest scores. On the following Sunday, Kingspark was invited by the Leo Club to join their Bowling Day. IPP Tom, Rtn Calvin, his wife Virginia and myself played for Kingspark that morning. True to our colours, we ended up being the 2nd runner-up. The success was very much due to the marvelous performance of Virginia, who scored about 50 more points in the second game than the first, and we were only 20 points ahead of the 4th place! Well done, Virginia!

I must thank Vocational Service Director, Rtn Amy, for her efforts in arranging for our members to attend the District Vocational Service Seminar on 30th October, and for her efforts in bringing guests to the meeting last week. I think Rtn Michael Eyles must have some other "bad habits" besides the one whereby he takes off his jacket.

If you like to look around while walking on the street and if you are careful enough, you might find something funny and interesting, like a poster, for example. Recently I found a series of posters which are quite interesting and which somehow are related to Kingspark. The theme of the series is the International Year of Volunteer sponsored by a famous fashion company. If you are not forgetful, you would still remember that Kingspark sponsored the kick-off ceremony of IYV in Hong Kong last December. For that project, Kingspark and IPP Tom got an award from the RI President. Let us come back to the series of posters. In recent years, the fashion company has made many controversial posters including these, and I want to share this with you. It consists of a series of ten posters of ten different people who were kind of Outstanding Service Volunteers. I hope you like watching them.

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NEWS FLASH

CP John Wan and Rosita is inviting all members of the Club to their Silver Wedding Anniversary Dinner Party to be held on Saturday, 1 December 2001 at Zetland Hall, 1 Kennedy Road at 7:00p.m. for 8:00p.m. Contact IPP Tom Hui for details

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My Young Friend Harry

By John Wan

A few weeks ago, I mentioned that Stephanie had a very good friend who would discuss various aspects of life by email and who had read my book, Letters from a Rotarian, and so on. A very good old friend wasted no time to send me an upbeat message, thinking that this could be a very special young man and so on. I quickly reassured her that it was not what she was thinking, but that I was grateful that she had been thing of my family. Her email has made me more cautious though and reminded me that I should protect the young man's identity at least for the time being. Nevertheless, I need to refer to him by an identity if I am to discuss his thoughts on life in these letters. I have decided to call him by another name. After all, what it is in a name. I will therefore call him Harry.

As Harry had guessed, quite a few young men and women had approached me before, in person or in writing, asking for opinions on issues and situations. I normally try to respond as quickly as I can, saying I don't know as necessary. I have been quite comfortable with this form of discussion. I would even go as far as saying that I have enjoyed the process, which some people might dismiss it as rather impersonal and therefore somewhat unreal or even impertinent. I suppose that is one of the reasons why life is so interesting, because we are all different. And I suppose that may also explain the popularity of the Internet chat rooms.

Harry is a prolific writer. Indeed, he has an ambition to be a writer, and one of the early subjects we discussed was authors and books. In the beginning, I tried to respond his emails one by one, but soon I found I was lagging behind, particularly when I was traveling. My young friend is understanding and has kept writing, in the belief that I would respond to his views in part if not all of them. Many of his views are rather interesting and original. With his agreement, I would be writing about them in these letters, hoping they would stimulate more views and feedback from readers.

Harry addressed me Mr. Wan in his first letters, out of deference, he said, adding that mister would transcend respect and admiration. After a few letters, I encouraged him to call me by first name. He did, but only for a while and quickly shifted back to Mr. Wan me. I had no problem al all with any salutation, but I found the episode rather interesting.

Harry has espoused the one book per author theory. He has found that books by the same author tend to have a deflating value so that it would be better to read just one book from an author. My response is that it is an interesting phenomenon, possibly precipitated by how the human mind works and the way the present-day man deals with problems. For it is only recently - last 50 to 100 years - that books have become popular and widespread. Over the years, people have written for different reasons, but in general, even today, not many people feel comfortable with leaving their works behind for scrutiny, again for a host of reasons.

Of course, Harry was talking about literary works and he went on to compare them with films many of which had derived from books. Let me say upfront that I am not competent to comment on literary works in any serious or academic fashion, not having been educated to do so and not having read as many works as I would like to. My view is that literature and for that matter any work of art is subject to interpretation and is popularized in the process by their patrons for various reasons, sometimes for the wrong reasons. Somehow, literary works and their authors are subject to greater scrutiny because they are there in a printed form which does not lend itself to further intrinsic growth or interpretation in the same way that music, painting and sculpture would. Anyone can be a critique, and there are too many self appointed critiques, particularly of books.

A great author is revered as such for many reasons, one of which is public or general acceptance. Many great authors of the past are only known by one book. One wonders what they did with their other works, prototypes or beta versions. It is not inconceivable that these authors had actually produced and written a lot, but the present day man has chosen to remember them by one "typical" piece. It follows that the state of mind of the readers could have contributed to the phenomenon. The question of how much time the average present-day man can find to read is also a practical factor. In practice, he reads very little and assimilates even less. So I concluded that reading one book per author could be a practical discipline and necessity. At least, it would be much better than not reading even one.

In his response, my young friend discussed the role of book critics, drawing on three categories of literary works, namely, poems, short stories and novels. Poems are analyzed, scrutinized and critiqued ad nauseam, word by word and from comma to full stops, possibly because they are short and conducive to such surgical processes. Harry found such analyses "meddling." Short stories are longer, but are subject to the same dissection and processes, and literary academia will not be satisfied unless every other sentence exudes a greater meaning and understanding of the world. Once again, because the works are not sufficiently long physically, they are easy targets for amateur critics who would "exact poison" at will, rather than focus on the works and their merits. Novels are saved from such wanton surgeries by their "sheer length," though specific passages and excerpts are often taken out at will for special treatment to illustrate whatever the critics desire to illustrate.

Harry went on to recall his experience in studying literature through reading, discussion and writing, and to articulate the merits of each of the three categories of works, referring to them as all "falling under the same gigantic umbrella." He was not an English Literature major; at least I don't think he was; but he is ready to discuss his personal views on books and authors. I wonder whether the education system in the United States or the person himself or both should claim the credit. In any case, I am happy for him.

As to the role of the critics, I would keep an open mind on the whole issue. After all, if one starts forming and expressing judgments about critics, that would put one in the same category and there would be no end to it. Critics themselves have become a profession on their own and no doubt would have to learn to take the good and bad with it. This year's Nobel laureate in literature, Naipaul, was roundly criticized for expressing public gratitude to prostitutes, but the Nobel institution quickly responded that the panel had reached its decision based on the merits of his work rather than on his moral. We have never heard the criticism repeated since and by now we could not even place who were the first critics.

It may be that literature critics have flourished on the way in which literature, in particular classical literature, was taught as a subject in schools. I also share the observation of my young friend regarding how critics operate in each category of works. This could be a direct consequence once again of how the human mind works or a reflection of normal human reaction. Many people are actually a rather predictable lot. Many people react in a certain way because they expect others to behave so and they are wary that others expect them to behave as such. It is this mindset that stifles creativity and human progress. It results in generations of people using yesterday's solutions to tackle today or tomorrow's problems, which is not very good, to say the least. Luckily, not everyone behaves as such all the time.

I would suggest that literature, and for that matter, all art forms such as painting, sculpture, music, cinematography, media and multi-media, and even food and wine, in short anything that appeals to our five senses, exist for our pleasure and to enhance the quality of life. It follows that anything that pleases one initially would be good, but the same art form would take on a new meaning to the individual who knows more about the particular art form and be able to take new meaning or to interpret the work. Critics over the years have compared literature to wine and sometimes to something else that would not be politically correct to articulate here. I have some renowned wine connoisseur friends who would observe one and only one rule in giving advice to beginners for wine sampling. He would simply say that any wine that tastes good is good. It may sound rather crude advice, but it is practical.

The same can be true for literature and poetry in particular. Any piece of work would be good if it has intrinsic appeals. In short, the more people, regardless of their background, like it, the better it would likely to be. That was actually the test adopted by many very famous Chinese poets. I remember being moved to tears many years ago when I watched an Italian opera. I knew neither the music nor Italian, but the interpretation by the artistes, director, choreographer and conductor and the powerfulness of the music and the singing were sufficient to bring out my emotions at the time. I went away feeling great and affected after the opera. To me, it was great music, great singing and great performance, and I don't know and would not bother to find out what the critics said the next day about the performance. Talk to you again next week.

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Member's Profile - By Francis Wann

"If someone holds up a cigarette where it's not allowed, I'll do something."

There's an exhibition on Qing Dynasty furniture in Rtn Anwer's Chine Gallery. Rtn Francis Wann
walked past the antiques - again

Sitting in front of Rtn. Anwer Islam, I tried to study the founding member of Kingspark from various traits. Here's the man who contributed the Red Box, initiated the "Gambler of the Year", and remembers every member's birthday. It is always fascinating when people talk about themselves. I have no doubt Rtn. Anwer has managed to establish his mark in the antique business. How does he stay afloat - considering the numerous similar shops on Hollywood Road? "Our focus is different." Would this simple statement epitomize his philosophy of work - and life?

It was about 1993 when Rtn. Anwer was first introduced to Rotary through another member who unfortunately has left for personal reasons. Kingspark was chartered in May 1994 and he has become a charter member.

"I entered Rotary knowing nothing about it, but I've always been playing different roles even when I was at school. I was involved in many clubs and services. I enjoyed that and that's the way I was brought up to believe. But with Rotary, we can achieve something sometimes an individual can't." Naturally projects on an international scale such as the eradication of polio from the human race can only be undertaken with full cooperation of the Governments concerned.

But not every project is conceived on such a scale. Rtn. Anwer was proud to point out a few Kingspark-initiated humanitarian projects, eg.

  1. installation of water distillation mechanism in Thailand co-sponsored by the Rotary Club of Sathon, our sister club,
  2. Kingspark's primary school in Guangxi province (co-sponsored by the Rotary Club of Kwun Tong), and
  3. the Spina Bifida project

Rtn. Anwer enthused with much pride and affection when he mentioned about the Spina Bifida project. "We killed several birds (with one stone) and now the project has acquired a life of its own. We've helped the children by providing our service, and we've got our Rotaractors involved. We don't just write a cheque.

"It is important to spread the word of Rotary, and that is why the involvement of Rotaract Clubs is of so much significance. Indeed Rotaractors are future Rotary Club members.And talking about members, I remember Rtn. Anwer was Club Services Director last year. What does it mean?

"It's about service and support for all members - in particular new members. I always had something for everyone, and I've never missed a member's birthday. I prepared gifts for everyone, and they enjoyed it. It's all about fellowship." I vaguely remember at one evening meeting Rtn. Anwer suggested we all let our hair down and had our fellowship at the Queen's (I was not yet a member then).

It also reminds me of another flamboyant and interesting position within the Rotary structure. I am of course referring to the Sergeant-at-arms (Rtn. Anwer was Asst Sergeant-at-Arms). My own understanding of this British tradition in the Parliament and Commons is that it is no ordinary post, as the Sergeant is the only member allowed to carry a sword into Parliamentary sessions, and has the authority to discipline any members(by force if necessary). Does our Sergeant carry enough clout?

"What's more important is our heart to serve. e give them titles which are part of the Rotary radition."Would he prefer to see Rotary involved in more international projects? "I'd rather take a position that within our limited resources available, we have the best combination. I think we've already done our best. It's a question of balance."

Have there been any instances which made him question the role of Rotary? Has he ever been in serious disagreement over priorities? Rtn. Anwer clearly needed to mince his words, and he asked to be excused. He returned with this message:"I think, Francis, I'd repeat what I've already said. Within our limited resources…"

Was Rtn. Anwer speaking his mind, or was he trying to be cautious? If members should read anything negative in these remarks, it is perhaps because Rtn. Anwer has always been positive in his approach. When you look at the Rotary ideal of Service above Self, other things seem irrelevant and insignificant. I seem to recall one occasion at a club assembly when Rtn. Anwer rose and spoke on issues concerning new members." I strongly believe we can't leave new embers on their own…That's not very responsible. We have to guide them through before they could find their own way. I'd suggest we appoint a Rotarian to be the mentor of a specific new member…"

And a mentor he was. Rtn. Anwer introduced Rtn. Amy to Rotary and "I tried my best to help her, sitting near her at meetings, explaining the sometimes complex structure in the early days…"Rtn. Anwer also cited another controversial issue on reimbursement policy where members are divided. I think it is natural that we have different views as we are individuals. But clearly with more discipline, things can be more effective. But just how much is too much? Rtn Anwer is now the President-elect. Would he like to see more discipline exercised at club level?

"I'm now heavily involved in club business at every level. I'm still exploring, and I'm forming my own thought on how things should be done. I think we do need a structure to make sure that meetings can be conducted more efficiently. I would conduct meetings - I mean the business part - more formally."

Apart from his Rotary commitment, Rtn. Anwer is member of the Italian Chamber of Commerce, and holds corporate memberships of the British Chamber of Commerce and the American Chamber of Commerce. He is also on the Membership Trust Fund Committee of the Harbour Junior Chamber which he joined in 1986. Is Rtn. Anwer a Jack of all trades? He hastened to add that these business bodies are for networking purpose only. There is however yet another capacity which escapes most Rotarians - Rtn. Anwer is Chairman of the grassroots organisation--People Acting for a Smokeless Society (PASS), and represents it at Council on Smoking and Health (COSH) meetings. He regards it a fundamental human rights issue being orced to inhale secondhand smoke. " If someone holds up a cigarette where it's not allowed, I'll do something." Rtn. Anwer certainly meant what he said.

I once suggested to PP Alex that Rtn. Anwer start writing a Continuity Column in the Kingspark Newsletter, and he assured me he would start soon. It will be nice to have one's thoughts well-documented. What will he write about? Rtn. Anwer was not giving out much so we will just have to wait and see.

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VOLUNTEERS DISTRIBUTING CONDOMS
TO PROSTITUTES

Extracts of an article on Nelson Gómez (a.k.a Melissa Simpson), a Guatemalan and one of the ten
outstanding volunteers that will be featured in the series of posters mentioned in President Raymond's message.
From the website maintained by the International Year of Volunteers 2001.

Twenty-one year old Nelson is a transvestite sex worker in Guatemala City. He also works part-time as an auxiliary in an accountancy firm.

On Friday and Saturday night he works as a volunteer with an organization called Rosalinda ('Pretty Rose'). The team of volunteers drive around Guatemala City in a car emblazoned with a giant condom, handing out condoms and information on AIDS prevention, sexual health and human rights, to other prostitutes and anyone who is interested. Rosalinda is part of OASIS, a project to improve the lives of the sexual minority in Guatemala.

"There's a lot of discrimination against the gay population here, mainly because they think we brought AIDS to Guatemala. They shout at us, 'Maricona Sidosa' ('you AIDS infected faggot'). Sometimes people just come up and hit us - even kids - or throw bad eggs or plastic bags full of excrement. They say we're sinners here.

"Nelson grew up in an extended family. His uncle found his homosexuality difficult to deal with and persecuted him. At 15, Nelson left home and started working the streets. "I never had access to information about AIDS and stuff. Now, I want to help those young people who are sexually active. This is the help I am giving to Guatemala."

Nelson is unhappy with his life. "What is my dream for the future? My dreams were killed when I was a kid. Nothing is beautiful in my life. I work as a sex-worker to help my family. I can make between $6 and $60 a night and I send that money to my grandma who has cancer and to my mum who is ill. My life is a disgrace. I am like a clown; laughing on the outside and crying inside. Sometimes I feel so fed up with life. What would be my one hope? That my mother and grandmother don't die. What makes me laugh? Myself and my suffering. My best friend Astra and I, we laugh at our problems together."

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COMING up EVENTS

(1) 22 to 25 November 2001 - Visit to Rotary Club of Sathorn.

(2) 2nd to 4th December 2001 - RI President visit Hong Kong. Our District will hold an Inter City meeting in the evening of 3rd December 2001 at Inter-continental Hotel, Tsimshatsui.

(3) 6th December 2001 - Annual General Meeting of our Club at luncheon meeting.

(4) 9th December 2001 - Annual Ball of the Rotary Club of Kowloon East at Inter-Continental Hotel, Tsimshatsui. Kingspark has reserved a table.

(5) 15th December 2001 - Christmas Party at Royal Hong Kong Yacht Club. Details to be confirmed by Sunny. The venue will be the outdoor garden overlooking the harbour with a beautiful view and having BBQ Buffer.

(6) 16th December 2001 - Christmas Party of our Rotaractors with the Spina Bifida Group.

(7) 25th December 2001 - No Dinner Mmeeting, it being a public holiday.

(8) 22nd to 24th February 2002 - RYLA Camp.

(9) 16th to 17th March 2002 - District Conference.

10) 4th May 2002 - Our Club's annual ball.

(11) June 2002 - RI Convention in Barcelona, Spain.

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The Board

President
Immediate Past President
President Elect
Vice President
Secreatary
Treasurer
Community Service Director
Vocational Service Director
International Service Director
Club Service Director
Programme Chairman
Sergeant-at-Arms
Director
Director

  Raymond Sin
Tom Hui
Anwer Islam
Peter Lo
Michael Eyles
Thomas Chan
Ho Chi Ming
Amy Chow
Stephen Lin
Sunny So
Jane Fung
Patrick Wong
Alice Chau
David Cheung
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Bulletin Editor : Alexander Mak
Bulletin Publisher : Terence Leung
Club Webmaster : John Wan


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